Helping Good Men Date Great Women​

How Emotionally Intelligent Are You in Dating?

If you’re smart and successful but still feel stuck or invisible with women, you’re not alone. You just need the right tools to unlock your true potential to connect with women.

Book your free consultation today and start dating with clarity and confidence.

How can I help you?

If you’re experiencing any kind of relationship and dating issues we can help

I can help you in different situations

No matter where you are in your journey, I provide clear, step-by-step guidance to help you unlock confidence, connection, and emotional clarity.

Career, Work,
Balance

If success at work hasn’t translated into success in love, I’ll show you how to bring the same focus and leadership into your dating life.

Mental &
Emotional Wellness

Overthinking and self-doubt don’t have to control your relationships. Together, we’ll build the emotional intelligence to date with calm confidence.

Breaking
Old Patterns

If you’re tired of repeating the same dating mistakes, I’ll help you identify and break through the patterns that keep you stuck.

People &
Relationships

From first dates to long-term commitment, I’ll teach you how to attract high-quality women and create connections that actually last.

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Coaching Focused on Your Dating Goals

Dating isn’t just about swiping right or saying the “perfect line.” It’s about building emotional intelligence, learning how to connect with women

Inner Healing & Confidence 84%
Marriage & Love 94%
Life Coaching 88%
Testimonials

Happy Clients About Me

Real stories from men who turned loneliness and frustration into dating confidence and lasting connections with women.

“Before working with Chris, I was constantly second-guessing myself and getting ghosted. Now I feel confident, I understand women better, and I’m finally dating someone I genuinely connect with.”
Paul L
Kansas City, MO
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“As a successful engineer, I thought I had everything except a relationship. Chris helped me break old patterns and rebuild my confidence. Within 4 months, I was in the healthiest relationship I’ve ever had.”
David R.
Washington, MD
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“I’d spent years on dating apps with no luck. Chris’s system taught me emotional intelligence and real connection skills. For the first time, dating feels exciting instead of exhausting.”
Alex M
Pittsburgh, PA
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Let me introduce

I’m Chris Gillis Emotional Intelligence Dating Coach for Men

I help men experience the kind of love and connection they deserve.

After years of watching men struggle with loneliness, ghosting, and shallow connections, I developed a proven system focused on emotional intelligence, self-worth, and real attraction.

My clients now have the confidence, clarity, and emotional mastery they need to build meaningful relationships

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Take the first step toward transforming your love life. If you’re a smart, successful man who feels stuck, lonely, or invisible in dating, you don’t have to figure it out alone.