About
Helping Men Create the Love They Deserve
My history
I know what it feels like to struggle in your personal life. Many of my clients come to me feeling invisible, lonely, and frustrated with modern dating.
That’s why I created a proven system focused on emotional intelligence, confidence, and real connection.
My mission is simple: to help you stop second-guessing yourself, break old patterns, and finally attract the kind of woman who truly understands and values you.
Chris Gillis
Founder & Dating Coach
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Journey of my life
A Man Built Through Adversity
01
1976
Born without a father in the picture, raised by my single mother and grandmother. Learned early how to read emotions, navigate intense energy, and figure things out without a male role model.
02
1980s–90s:
Grew up in poverty, trailer parks, food stamps, and eviction notices. Developed a fierce work ethic, but also carried a scarcity mindset that held me back in relationships and life.
03
Early 2000s:
Got my first girlfriend, but my fear of rejection kept me too afraid to kiss her. At 18, after years of social fear, she finally forced me to kiss her. Realized confidence wasn’t about being fearless it was about learning the right skills and putting myself in the right situations.
04
2017:
After being cheated on by three previous long-term girlfriends, my poor boundaries, fear of vulnerability, and low self-respect set the stage for it to happen a fourth time, and this one broke me completely. Heartbroken and mentally wrecked, I realized mastering short-term dating tactics wasn’t enough. I wanted a real connection. Burned out from spending an average of four hours a day on dating apps, I began rebuilding myself from a low self-esteem “Nice Guy” who avoided conflict into the kind of man I wanted to be one who could attract and keep an incredible partner.
05
2017–Today:
Turned my hard-earned lessons into a mission: helping men break people-pleasing habits, build emotional presence and sexual confidence, and create relationships that last.
