FIND YOUR MATCH

One Profile. Many Matchmakers.

You fill out one profile, and it goes in front of matchmakers all over the country who are actively looking for someone like you. Not just one person's little black book, a whole network of people trying to set you up.

Private. Personal. Discreet.

Chris Gillis
Chris Gillis Emotional Intelligence Dating Coach

Two minutes on how this works and what your profile actually does.

Apply For Matchmaking

Takes about 10 minutes. A real matchmaker reads it, not a computer. It's free, and there's no promise you'll get matched, just a real shot at it.

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WHY THIS EXISTS

Dating apps burn you out. Private matchmakers cost a fortune. This is the middle ground.

You've probably swiped through more apps than you'd like to admit. Maybe you looked into hiring a matchmaker too and choked at the price. This isn't either one of those.

Dating apps

Endless swiping, small talk that goes nowhere, people who vanish the second things get real. You already know how this goes.

Traditional matchmaking

Can be great, but you're stuck with whoever's already in one person's rolodex. If your type isn't in there, you're waiting around for nothing.

This approach

One profile puts you in front of a whole network of matchmakers instead of just one. More people looking on your behalf, more real shots at meeting someone worth your time.

Chris Gillis

One profile. Many matchmakers.

Here's the actual difference. A regular matchmaker only knows the people in their own book. If the right person for you isn't already in there, you're just waiting. This way, your profile is visible to matchmakers all over the country who are actively hunting for someone like you on behalf of their own clients. More eyes on your profile, more chances someone actually says "I know exactly who this guy should meet."

BEYOND PHOTOS AND PROMPTS

A good photo gets you a first date. This is built for a second one.

The profile covers ten things that actually predict whether two people work long-term, not just whether you look good standing next to each other.

Values
Lifestyle
Relationship Desires
Marriage & Family
Faith
Relationship History
Dealbreakers
Must-Haves
Communication
Long-Term Compatibility

A photo only tells half the story

You'll also record a short video. Nothing scripted, no lighting setup, just you talking for a minute. It gives matchmakers a sense of your energy, your sense of humor, the stuff a photo just can't show.

And no, it's not posted anywhere for people to scroll through. Matchmakers use it to make better introductions. That's the whole point of it.

PRIVATE. PERSONAL. DISCREET.

Nobody's scrolling through your profile like it's Tinder

Your information goes to matchmakers, not out to other members to browse through.

Your profile stays private

Nobody sees it except the people actually trying to match you.

Only shared for a real match

A matchmaker has to actually believe you two make sense before anything gets shared.

You're always in the loop

Nothing goes out without you knowing about it first.

FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE ACTUALLY READY

Yeah, it takes a little more effort. That's kind of the point.

This isn't six photos and three one-liners. You're answering real questions about what you actually want, which takes a bit more time, but it also means the people going through this are just as serious as you are.

Chris Gillis

Chris has spent years helping men work through exactly this, the patterns that keep tripping them up, the honesty it takes to actually know what you want in a partner. That's the kind of work that makes a profile like this worth doing right instead of rushing through it.

"Before working with Chris, I was constantly second-guessing myself and getting ghosted. Now I feel confident and I understand women better."

Paul L.

Kansas City, MO

"The profile process felt quick but still personal. The questions were direct enough that I could tell they actually wanted to understand me."

Kim, 30

Art Director, Los Angeles

TO BE CLEAR

It's free to apply. Nobody's promising you a match.

Applying just means a matchmaker might consider you when they're looking for someone for one of their clients. There's no guarantee. What you do get is a real shot, and a better one than sitting alone in some matchmaker's back-pocket list.

WHY CHRIS IS SHARING THIS
Chris Gillis, Emotional Intelligence Dating Coach

I kept hearing the same thing from my clients

Guys would do the work, get their head straight, figure out what they actually wanted, and then ask me: okay, so where do I actually meet her? That's the gap this fills. I started sending clients here because it puts you in front of more people than any one matchmaker could ever introduce you to on their own. Apply through this page and your application gets flagged as coming from me, so they know exactly where you're coming from.

Dating & Relationship Coach, Matchmaking Collaborator
APPLY NOW

Alright, let's get you in front of somebody

Fill out the application below. It's automatically flagged as coming from Chris, so there's no extra step on your end.

This page is run by Chris as a referral partner within a professional matchmaking network. Applying doesn't guarantee you'll get matched.