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Why Men Who Over-Explain Lose the Girl Every Single Time
Let me describe a scene that is probably familiar. She asks a simple question what do you do, or why did you leave your last job, or what happened with that relationship. And instead of answering simply and directly, something happens. The answer becomes an essay. Every potential misunderstanding gets
She Got the ‘Ick’, What Actually Happened and How to Never Trigger It Again
If you’ve spent any time in dating conversations in the last couple of years, you’ve encountered the concept of ‘the ick.’ For those unfamiliar: the ick is a sudden, visceral shift in attraction the moment when something a person does or says creates an involuntary recoil that’s very difficult to
What ‘Masculine Energy’ Actually Means, And Why Most Men Have It Backwards
Few concepts in the modern dating conversation have been more distorted by the people who talk about them most loudly than masculine energy. In the corners of the internet most frequented by men looking for dating advice, masculine energy tends to mean one of two things: either a cold, emotionally
What Women Actually Want in 2026 (Based on Data, Not Guesswork)
There is a lot of noise in the dating advice space about what women want. Some of it is rooted in genuine observation. A lot of it is projection, ideology, or the retroactive theorising of men who got lucky and called it strategy. I want to do something different in
Dating After 40: Why It’s Actually Better (If You Do This One Thing)
I want to push back on a narrative that I hear far too often from men who are dating in their forties. The narrative goes something like this: ‘It gets harder as you get older. The pool shrinks. Everyone has baggage. Women my age want someone who’s already figured everything
The Difference Between Screening and Judging, And Why Most Men Get It Backwards
Let me describe two men, both of whom would tell you they have standards. The first man walks into a date with a woman and within ten minutes has mentally catalogued everything that doesn’t match his mental profile. She used a word he found slightly irritating. She mentioned an ex
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