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Chris Gillis

Valentine’s Day Is Just a Date

And That’s Exactly Why It Matters. Every year, Valentine’s Day arrives carrying a strange double weight. On one hand, it is obviously just a date on the calendar. February 14th. Arbitrary. Artificial. A day that exists because someone, somewhere, decided it should. And yet, on the other hand, it has

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Coaching
Chris Gillis

5 Things to Leave OUT of the Bedroom

Let’s talk about the elephant in the room: How your bedroom habits can make or break intimacy, sleep, and connection. Summary: Your bedroom is more than four walls, it’s where you rest, recharge, and (hopefully) connect deeply with your partner. But a few sneaky habits and misplaced items might be

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Chris Gillis

Why Being “Selfish” Might Save Your Relationship

Being Selfish Isn’t the Problem, But Losing Yourself Is. For people with good hearts, the word selfish often feels like a moral failure. You were probably taught,explicitly or implicitly,that love means sacrifice, that being a “good” partner means putting others first, and that your value comes from how useful, supportive,

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Coaching
Chris Gillis

Why Losing the Argument Is Often How You Win the Relationship 

Most people enter arguments believing they are defending truth, logic, or fairness. In reality, most arguments inside relationships are not about facts at all. They are about safety, recognition, power, and belonging. This is why someone can “win” an argument logically and still lose the emotional bond that made the

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Coaching
Chris Gillis

There Is No Perfect Tinder Profile! 

Every few months, the internet rediscovers the same promise. “The perfect Tinder profile.” The bio that guarantees matches. The photo order that forces attraction. The one-liner that somehow works on everyone, everywhere, forever. It’s a comforting fantasy. It suggests dating is a puzzle with a correct solution. That if you

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Coaching
Chris Gillis

Love in the distance – Long distance relationship

Long-distance relationships are no longer the exception; they are a structural feature of modern life. The internet, affordable travel, and globalized labor markets have made connection easier than ever, yet, paradoxically, they have also made separation more common, more normalized, and more unavoidable. Many couples do not choose distance as

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